When we are in a relationship it often happens that we look the other way once things start going south and we choose not to notice the little things that point in that direction. No matter how hard we try, if the other side is unwilling to do the same we cannot fix things on our own. If you are often left wondering how to make things better and make your partner care about your relationship maybe you’ve come to the point where you need to move on.
You need to be aware that you cannot do everything on your own, especially when it comes to a relationship. There comes a time when we need to man up and admit that our partner no longer wishes to be in this relationship, and it’s OK because if he’s stopped caring for you, you don’t need him anyways. You may think that you can make things better because it has worked so well so far but sometimes there’s no point in investing everything and losing yourself in the process. No matter what you do it’s no good and this means that your relationship has reached its end. It’s time for you to move on and find someone who’ll love you and want to be with you because you are a wonderful, caring and loving person.
If your partner is acting indifferently lately and you’re not sure what’s the problem, look for the following 18 signs is. They’re a tell-tale sign your partner has lost interest in your relationship.
- They are too busy for you
When you’re in a loving relationship your partner should always have time for you. If you have to beg him to spare an hour of his time and have lunch with you it’s possible he just doesn’t care enough anymore. Or if you notice that he starts rolling his eyes and leaves the room when you start talking about your day there’s something fishy. Noticing the two in combination are a sure sign he’s lost interest.
- They are indecisive
They keep playing the hot and cold game: just when you give up, they are all into the relationship; when you call it quits, they start thinking of getting back together. It’s just like they can’t decide are they in or out but in fact they are getting the upper hand in the relationship. You need to let him know that relationships don’t work like that and that he needs to decide what he wants. Don’t waste your time with people like that and appreciate yourself more, you deserve better!
- They make themselves the focus of attention
You always make sure your partner’s needs and desires etc. are met with accordingly, but that leaves little or no room for you and all you do for them in their ‘me-world’. This is a major sign that they do not care about you or your relationship! Even if you did not do something grand for them, they would still take your hand and have you walk with them on every path of life. If they stop caring, they won’t even bother.
- It’s always your fault
If you notice that your partner put the blame on you for everything even though it can’t possibly be that it’s always your fault than you need to do something about it. It doesn’t matter if it’s something big or small, pointing a finger at you in every possible situation is not healthy for a relationship.
If they truly cared about you or your relationship, they would take the blame and not the other way around. The small things we do in the name of love and friendship are always important.
- They treat you with arrogance
If your partner looks at you from above, thinking less of you and your qualities and letting you know how he feels then he couldn’t possibly care about you the way he should. No matter the difference in salaries, education, social class or rank, a person who cares will never let the other one feel degraded and hurt your feelings.
- Being disrespectful
If your partner shows disrespect for the things that matter to you then you should find your way out of this relationship. Caring for someone means caring for the things he finds important, no matter how we feel about it. You should be treated with equal respect, remember that!
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