If we were in a Disney fairytale we’d all find our soulmate and live happily ever after, knowing that our Prince Charming will love us for the rest of our life. Unfortunately, life is not a fairytale; to be honest it’s far from it. In real life people get bored in relationships, cheat, lie, sleep around and do all sorts of dishonest things, which is why many relationships fall apart. You need to have a realistic approach in life and you have to be prepared for everything because you never know what can happen.
We’re not saying that you should be thinking about the bad things that could happen to your relationship all the time but you should also pay attention and not ignore the signs if something is going downhill. It could be that your partner is madly in love with you and would never set his eyes on another women but it could also be that he’s sleeping around and you’re not even aware of it.
If you’re noticing some peculiar changes in your relationship, if you notice untypical behavior from your partner’s side you should start paying more attention to his extracurricular activities. Here are 7 signs which most definitely mean that he’s not being faithful to you.
Continually working late
This is the oldest trick in the book and even though it may be legit, working extra hours every day should tell you that something smells fishy. Especially if he’s killing it at work but you don’t notice any increase in your income.
A lot of women notice this sign but are often too shy to call up his boss and find out if he’s really telling the truth, which makes this the perfect excuse. If you suspect he’s not really “working late” go ahead and call his boss, he’ll never see it coming but you’ll know nice and for all if he’s cheating or not.
Less often initiation of closeness
If you notice your partner is not interested in being intimate with you as much as he used to it could be that he’s getting his pleasure somewhere else. Talk to him and see what the problem is, if he makes up some silly excuses and dodges the questions you could be certain that he’s not being honest with you.
Taking too long to answer texts
Does your partner take forever to reply to your text? It shouldn’t be the case because it usually takes a little time to answer it. Unless he has a valid reason for this you should be suspicious. If he suddenly has a password lock on his phone as well your alarm should be buzzing.
Taking a shower immediately after arriving home
You should be worried if your partner usually waited till nighttime to shower, but suddenly switch to showering immediately they get home, which usually indicates an attempt to wash off another person’s scent.
Test your partner; find out if he/she is open to hugging and kissing as soon as they walk through the door, or if they give reasons why they should not.
Pay extra attention to their looks
If you notice your partner spending a lot of time on self-beautification lately which is a true change compared to before, when he could have walked out the door in a ripped pair of jeans and a stained t-shirt, you should be more observant. If they start paying additional attention to grooming, they are most likely seeing someone else and are still in the honeymoon stage.
This one is a bit tricky and you should be extra careful. It could be that your partner really loves you and decides to buy something to show his undying love and attention; or it could be that he’s feeling guilty for cheating and this is his way to make up for it.
Be careful not to offend a loving partner by accusing him of infidelity but just be more observant and look for some other potential signs before you start pointing the finger.
New moves in bed
It could be that your partner wants to spice things up so he learned a few tricks and tips online or from a friend but it could also be that he’s learned them from his mistress. If you notice a new kissing style or some new positions in bed be sure to ask him where he learned all of that.